Welcome to the third installment of “What Makes a . . .” In What Makes a Memoir we will take a look at five elements that will have your readers lining up to learn and be inspired.

What Makes a Memoir Work?

What makes a memoir work? How does memoir differ from an autobiography? A memoir needs a clear, compelling theme. It must be honest and vulnerable; including an emotional arc and personal growth. The reader should experience your obstacles and conflicts. Throughout it all, your memoir should showcase your unique voice and style.

A Clear, Compelling Theme

A memoir is not an autobiography; it focuses on a specific theme, message, or period in the author’s life. Every story, scene, and reflection should support this central idea, giving the memoir cohesion and purpose.

Examples:

Educated by Tara Westover: The theme centers on self-invention and the power of education to transform a life.

Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad: Explores themes of illness, survival, and finding meaning in life after trauma.

Honesty and Vulnerability

Great memoirs are marked by unflinching honesty and emotional openness. Readers connect with the author’s willingness to be vulnerable, sharing both triumphs and flaws.

Examples:

Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner: Zauner’s candid exploration of grief and identity resonates through her raw honesty.

Know My Name by Chanel Miller: Miller’s memoir is celebrated for its courageous vulnerability in recounting her experience as a survivor.

Emotional Arc and Personal Growth

The memoir’s protagonist (the author) should undergo a clear emotional journey or transformation, showing how they changed as a result of their experiences.

Examples:

Wild by Cheryl Strayed: Follows Strayed’s journey of healing and self-discovery on the Pacific Crest Trail.

The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls: Wall’s emotional arc traces her evolving relationship with her unconventional family.

Obstacles and Conflict

Obstacles – whether internal or external – drive the narrative. The memoir’s tension comes from the author’s struggles and how they confront or overcome them.

Examples:

In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado: Machado details her experience in an abusive relationship, confronting both personal and societal obstacles.

The Light We Carry by Michelle Obama: Chronicles challenges faced and the tools she uses to persevere.

Distinct Voice and Style

A memoir should be unmistakably personal, written in the author’s unique voice and style. This includes tone, word choice, and narrative structure, which together create intimacy and authenticity.

Examples:

Born a Crime by Trevor Noah: Noah’s humor, wit, and storytelling flair make his voice instantly recognizable.

I’m Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy: McCurdy’s candid, darkly humorous style sets her memoir apart.

Does your memoir have what it takes?

Does your memoir have what it takes to thrive? Are you ready for a professional pair of eyes to help you ensure your manuscript has these five elements? Reach out today to schedule time to discuss content editing.